We generally give more stress on looking at the extreme ends. Interestingly, we generally extend this principle in various aspects of our life. How many of us never use to see due date when planning to pay an installment? Many time we use to predict the future according to our certainty and make plans accordingly. We always give more stress to unknown tomorrow i.e. we generally plan that tomorrow we are going to put more efforts than today . Now deliberating this fact, we are so much assured about our coming tomorrow that we just put most important thing of our life “on hold”. Its really hard to deny this fact. It is adopted behavior i.e. we follow what others do. Resistance to change is quite strong, so most of us never dare to take a step ahead.
I am just rewriting previous sentence in more inherent manner. We are not looking for tomorrow, we are just planning to make today more relaxed and comfortable. It may be quite dangerous sometimes, we make distance by unnecessary delay and that time gap act as barrier in the communication, soon we reach in the extreme position due to continuous avoidance of circumstances which don’t have any return point, then we loose. There is always some forces which act as “resistance to change” ( laziness and fear factor may be the key factor)
No one can assure about coming tomorrow. I am just repeating one sentence from my friend “No one know, what next moment will bring for him/her. Only, we will be recognized by our good work and relation we have, that’s immortal”. I totally agree that some of the task totally related to timing (altering of those may lead to consumer-producer problem) , but most critical one don’t.
We never know that how much of us is having happiness because of you and how much happiness is their in world for you. Everything is hidden in dark side of time. Its time to change things with next maturity level of thoughts. Why we use to delay most important things for us, why we always try to explain our heart to delay most important decisions of our personal and professional life by giving alibi. Some symptoms may be problems faced to reach at current position, fear factor, afraid from consequences, environmental factors and other social/political reasons. Why? Is their any significance of these listed things? Is their any comparison between your importance, will power, passion to reach goal and these minute factors. Then why we always keep ourselves stopped! Why we kill our likings. Instead of thinking about better implementation, we just plan to leave!!! We are independent then why we can’t freely say what we want, why we hesitate in communicating our rights, why we never take steps to achieve our motive? Who is stopping us? These hesitations may make our whole life ruin. Most of us will never ever be able to do what we want right now. We never use to prioritize importance of things and their probable importance in near future.
At personal level, to be the happiest we only have to keep our heart account free. Don’t keep anything pending. Then see how your life will be free from all problems. It should be mentioned that only heart have deal with permanent happiness, brain don’t.
Don’t wait for unknown tomorrow. Make this moment your most precious moment. Go, let your “special” know that they are really special for you. Let your beloved one, your friends, your family, your mentors know how much important they are for you. How their presence make a difference in your life. Start your future tasks with today. Take your steps toward tomorrow. Leave all old tactics of looking for an opportunity, feeling hesitation in greeting/appreciation someone, waiting for favors. Don’t ruin your life by not caching this moment. We already wasted lot of time in thinking, now don’t waste time, do what your heart feels. Stop explaining to your heart, JUST DO IT even Emotional Intelligences verifies this that decision taken from heart is mostly correct. We try to take decision by our own and let other don’t know why we have done this, simply keeping other side in dark. Why we are afraid of consequences when it is always better to do things.
Why you stop because you find some one in surrounding world when they never run with us, they have their different life and none of them at all interested in us. They are not at all part of your life, because they change with time. We ourselves are responsible for all mishaps. Why we think that others will be uncomfortable without doing this when we know “most true side of our life is always hidden“. If you don’t do now you may not be able to do throughout your whole life. Honestly ask yourself, why we never appreciate if we want, why we hide things, why I have not taken decision at time, why I am delaying thing,. the only answer is you never compared resisting factor with importance of happening of that thing. Its not for reading, it is for implementing. Try to implement from today. Do what you want. Remember, “Failure is always better than ‘giving up’“. Feel breeze of “your new free world”. Even sometimes failure is better than success because when we got success we generally don’t workout on post analysis. But when we failed on something that we gather far more information on that subject, we try to examine all importance aspects and specially why we failed.
Real losers are those who can’t manage all things together. They always run for one to give up all others. This is mostly true for money seekers. I really can’t understand why we give up one thing for another if things are independent or not competitor. I hope from today onwards you may make your mind independent from excessive use and try to lead to your better tomorrow.